“I heard from a man in his early 40s with serious heart problems. He wrote to tell me about Krishnamurti, a spiritual leader in India who died in 1986. Krishnamurti was once asked what is the most appropriate thing to say to a friend who was about to die. He answered: ‘Tell your friend that in his death, a part of you dies and goes with him. Wherever he does, you also go. He will not be alone.’ In his email to me, this man was reassuring: ‘I know you are not alone.’”
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cosmorama- May 26th, 2008
In his bestselling The Last Lecture, Randy Pausch deals briefly with the question: What do you say to someone who is dying and knows it? Pausch says that he heard from thousands of people after he was diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer and gave a lecture about it:
2008-05-29 08:18 pm (UTC)
2008-05-30 09:13 am (UTC)
Let's see our average american lifespans are 76.4 for women and 72 for mens. So I was halfway there about 4 years ago.
2008-06-01 02:39 am (UTC)